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[Fernpool]

So I just found out i'm moving across the country and everything just seems to be going wrong :( movings nothing new to me, I've been doing it since I was 12 about every 2 years, but this is going to be my last year in high school. I'm worried I'm going to have no friends and totally not fit in. On top of all that, I've been grounded for about 4 months straight now and whenever I even try to talk to my parents I get screamed at and ALWAYS end up crying. They won't let me see my boyfriend and we've been going out for as long as i've been grounded. One of my really close friends confessed to me that she wants to kill herself. My sport, swimming has gotten a lot harder due to me twisting my shoulder and now my coach is thinking of taking me off of Varsity. My boyfriend is acting really weird and now there's this other guy who has told me he likes me and I've told him I don't want anything like that and every things just really stressful...my nights are usually me crying myself to sleep and I really feel like this move isn't going to help at all. If anyone could help with anything I would REALLY appreciate it.

[Ace]

I know this is late, but I have to say I'm very sorry that you're going through a bad time. =/ My best advice is to do two things: come into terms that even if you are moving, you don't have to give everything up. Maybe it'll be harder and it'll hurt being apart, but not all of it has to be lost. You can still be friends over a distance than you can be sitting right next to them. My second piece of advice is trying to deal with everything that's going on. Don't leave with a bunch of loose ends, try and tie them. Go to your friends and ask them the problem, and then fix it.

I hope I wasn't too late to answer this, and if I am, I hope it went well.